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Thinking partneR. Coach. mediation. facilitation

Free the more in you, the part nothing else has reached.

Build extraordinary love; or close the chapter with grace.

Lead through extreme pressure and volatility, without going bust.

Transcend Limits. Defy Convention. Spark magic

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Relationship Alchemist.

Human Software Developer.

Bringing deep understanding of human behavioural psychology, interpersonal and organisational power dynamics combined with systems thinking, product and agility:

I help people stay sure of themselves in the ambiguity, complexity and turbulence of transitions that ask more of you than anything you've done before.

For you. For your most important partnerships. For the rooms in which you lead.

If you've found your way here, you probably already know why.

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Ways to work with me….

Transcend Limits. Defy Convention. Spark Magic

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    YOU

    Ready to step into your full power, uncage your potential and create the truly extraordinary?

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    RELATIONSHIP ALCHEMY

    Get off the rollercoaster and unlock deep relationship magic…

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    EXPERIENCES

    Raise your vibration with Transformational Experiences that help you get more from life..

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    LEADERS & CORPORATE

    Support as you lead through turbulence. Org Design, Exec Coaching, Bespoke Facilitation. Product/Culture Change.

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Real Results, Real Stories

  • "The skill set Sam Kiani has is unbelievable, I can truly say I've never met anyone quite like her!!! In just one session Sam helped me with a complex conflict regarding a group of friends- who I love dearly and am very close to. Its amazing that in a few hours, so many realisations were understood. On that basis I could then take the steps to resolve the issues. I feel so silly, as for weeks I stressed over this, wondering how I should fix it, but not getting anywhere fast. So speaking with Sam I feel more empowered about myself and my friendship group, all issues have been resolved, what's that's saying........'the power of communication' Thanks so much Sam!! I will always be indebted to you."

    Francesca Pearson

  • "Sam is amazing, she predicted 6 sessions but after only 2 sessions I was able to unlock tremendous changes, I will keep using her as I go along and even thinking to have my teen do some sessions as well. She is friendly and good hearted and take her job seriously, I could see how passionate she was in dealing with me. So 2024 don’t wait make some changes now, she is the perfect tool to have. Love peace and light."

    Siham

  • "I cannot express how grateful I am to Sam and her incredible practice. I have had many different forms of therapy in the past but her approach is so unique, she gets to the heart of the personal issues in a heartbeat with such great compassion, care, commitment and most of all intuitive understanding. Sam wakes your mind with strategies that place beams of light in the dark shadows you thought couldn't be reached or rescued. I am forever grateful for the techniques I've been taught, the belief she's powered me with and the determination she's engrained into my new responses and life goals".

    Helen Holden

  • "Sam isn't your regular coach. In my opinion she goes above and beyond for her clients, communicating and sharing all her knowledge on a day to day basis. I really feel that my sessions are so carefully tailored to what I need and not just on a practical level but incorporating spiritual practise too. My eyes have been opened and my life has changed since working with Sam".

    Meeta Dsouza

  • "I worked with Sam over 6 sessions to address challenges I was having with relationships and confidence. Sam supported me with different techniques which allowed me to see my strengths and develop a better relationship with myself first, which is helping me to build healthier relationships with others. I feel more confident and now have skills to help me with life's challenges. One of them being the PQ programme which is helping me make positive changes in the way I think and act. I would highly recommend Sam to anyone looking to make positive changes in their lives. I am very grateful that our paths crossed."

    Jane Hemming

  • "I really valued my time coaching with Sam. She has an amazing way of really hearing what you are saying and just seems to get it. She has a wealth of knowledge around personal growth and development which proved to be a real asset for me at a time when I really needed it. Working with Sam uncovered some big blockers that I had put in my own way and I continuously work on these every day. Sam’s way about her even inspired me to research the coaching course she certified with and sign up myself. A truly fabulous coach and person! Thank you Sam."

    Beccie Scales

  • "Sam is an amazing coach. Her coaching sessions have had a real positive impact on my life. I am someone who can find it very difficult to verbalise what is going on in my mind but Sam has a way of creating a safe, judgement free space and is always patient. Sam always knows which questions to ask to explore what is going on. I can see that she genuinely wants her clients to achieve their goals and will put her energy in supporting them to do so. Through Sam’s coaching, I have learnt strategies and techniques that I can implement in my day to day. Coaching sessions have covered different areas, including self development, nutrition, relationships and work. I am more confident in myself and clearer on my goals. Sam’s coaching has played a big part in this. I am so grateful to Sam and I would not hesitate in making a call to her if you are looking for a coach :)"

    Charlotte Jones

  • "Sam is an excellent, caring, and knowledgeable coach. She worked with me to help bring me out of a life and career rut I was in. She allowed me space to digest the tools she gave me and we worked to adapt anything that wasn't quite right. Sam is so easy to work with and her passion shines through in every thing she does. I finished our sessions feeling in control and empowered to snatch my goals."

    Leeanne Adu

  • "Couldn't be happier with my coaching with Sam! The value and content during sessions is absaloutly brilliant! She always goes at your pace, and really listens to what you want to work on and what you would like to take away from each session, always making sure your both on the same page and working towards clear goals, very empathic & such a passion for each session you have! Feeling seen and heard and understood and each session is a step closer to my end goal, feels like such a safe place to feel vunrable and peel back them layers, thank you so much!"

    Jemma Simpson

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Podcasts

How to reboot relationships

radio 1’s Emma-Louise & Sam Kiani

How to eliminate conflict

LYN Smith & Sam Kiani

Workplace stress & bullying

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Guided meditations

In today’s world, its more important than ever to reclaim our focus and be able to be present to what is. Meditation is the process of training the mind - and while guided meditations aren’t the only way; zen tells us “chop wood, carry water when mind is busy” - these are of course the easiest to record.

Listen my most popular Crystal Bowl 10 min Morning Meditation below - or explore more on Insight Timer

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Crystal bowl 10 min morning meditation
Sam Kiani

Crystal bowl 10 minute morning meditation