Exhausted…or am I lazy?
Sam Kiani Sam Kiani

Exhausted…or am I lazy?

If you’re struggling with exhaustion, marvelling at your former get up and go self, wondering how to summon your previous levels of drive and ability to power through - this is for you.

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How to finally stop being so hard on yourself
Sam Kiani Sam Kiani

How to finally stop being so hard on yourself

You may also misunderstand compassion as being beige, weak, maybe roll-over-turn-the-other-cheek, kind of passive. 

Compassion is true love in action.  True love says no, that’s not ok.  True love means boundaries.  Swift, fearless, enlightened action. Quite the opposite of beige.

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Inspired Going Through It Guide
Sam Kiani Sam Kiani

Inspired Going Through It Guide

If you’re reading this, like me right now you’re really going through it.  I want you to know you’re not alone and this too shall pass.

This blog post is my Inspired Guide to Going Through It - sharing wisdom, practices and 5 principles of What Helps.

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Extraordinary Love…is it even possible?
Sam Kiani Sam Kiani

Extraordinary Love…is it even possible?

It’s just so easy to be ordinary. To get caught up in the mundane, domesticity of life. To blame our partner for our dissatisfaction. Well f*&^% ordinary - read this and unlock the secrets of co-creating Extraordinary Love

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Needs do not make us Needy
Sam Kiani Sam Kiani

Needs do not make us Needy

Negotiating our needs well not only builds connection and trust but also gives an inner experience of personal freedom and acceptance too.

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Be Kinder
Sam Kiani Sam Kiani

Be Kinder

A surprising key to a deeply fulfilling, happy relationship - be kinder. Not nicer.

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Kicking The Criticism Habit
Sam Kiani Sam Kiani

Kicking The Criticism Habit

For a relationship to be resilient and feel strong, we need to have a ratio of 5 positive interactions for every negative one.

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